"My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93,000 when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago. We knew a bit in University few years ago.
Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child. Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba".
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too. Okay, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth.
Do you think I should buy it??? "
Ongoing Nairaland conversation.
Abeg shine ya eyes wella. Let him send the money.
ReplyDeleteOmo u dey waste time clear am....you can't geh the shoe period!!!
ReplyDeleteYou already know his mindset and his disposition towards u. But somehow. .. u are worried about the shoe. .. when u should be asking why u are still dating such a child.
ReplyDeleteAnyways... I am sure... u want to save that question till when u marry him and find he is who he is... a little boy ... and then u can ask for advice abi?
If u are smart enough to think along these lines... it means u see a future for u both... and he obviously has made it abundantly clear that that future is only in ur head.
As to what you should do... I think u are smart enough to make the decision.
My dear sister....move on.A guy that really cares for you won't ask u to buy him a shoe worth 93k when u r just a student and nt working. Even if u have d money & gets him a gift worth DAT amount, a man in his right sences will scold u to know where d hell u gat d money as a student...
ReplyDeleteHe says u should save 93k before arrival and he will pay u back... why can't he save the money and send to u instead. .. he's not a serious man at all. Don't waste your money... He already says he's not ur husband but u guys just in relationship... that tells he doesn't have any future with u.
ReplyDeleteYou better dust your slippers and move on fast before you stand to regret iy
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